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all this ignorance of racism has to stop!

I dont understand why their are people being so rude to African Americans I hate hearing stories like my friend was buying gift cards from rite aid and she always buy $500.00 in gift cards to gift to people and mind you she those this every month because she is so kind and like to give to the community and because she is such a sweet heart she is also a knitter so she always goes to the same place to get the gift card and this person had the nerves. to ask her if she is harmed or is someone forcing her to get gift cards and she explain why would she be in harm she those this every month and so she explain herself and the guy was so rude talking about policies and called young lady like who the hell is he to talk to her like this it was offending her like this guy was so rude so she ask to talk to the manager politely and he just gave her the run around also but he charged her but had the nerves to question her in such bad manners and their was another lady that knows that she comes every month to get gift cards and she didn’t say anything to this guy or interfere and that was wrong she knew that gg always comes every month for the same thing it just upset me when they treat others wrong I have to say to me in my opinion we all all the same just different colors shape and languages I hate when ignorance happened by now everyone should respect each other is always blacks this blacks that I hate when they specify on color or race like if you are puertorican you are a criminal or a spic like this should stop things like this upset me a lot because Martin Luther king died for equal peace and for freedom of speech like stop the hate and the signaling people we have names use it if not dont put names on people because is wrong I believe in equal rights I know some of you are saying oh I dont understand yes I do I hate this immature bullshit that goes around we need to love each other and stop this madness because it causes pain and hate in this world and we are all one I’m sorry that my friend had to go through this is so upsetting no-one should be question as to why they buy or whatever with their money it is sad I hate the fact that African Americans and Spanish people are always watch when going to stores or judge like dame let people live and when they assume that you dont have the money to buy certain item like stop it this is crazy you figure by now people would stop doing this like what the hell wrong with people I’m just so upset about this sorry ya just had to vent with ya because this has to stop!

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when you get that call from a special person in your life!

so even though I’ve been feeling sick for the past days with the rain. I have been thinking about my sister a lot, I miss spending time with her and she is my other half. there are no secrets between us and she is just the right person to share my thoughts and we just are great together. anyways I’m sure you can obviously tell who called me today! right. yes I received a call from her that she will be visiting me from Boston this weekend and that she will surprised me. what a news that was! I cant wait, we have so much to talk about, and we need a drink for that as well. we also have plans to go to puertorico to meet our other sister Jenny with my dad. oh my god I know you know we exited. we have spoken in the Fone and in FaceTime and I cant wait. it looks like it will be a gift from Aby and dad to pay my way to go. I feel like a little girl, but the way life is hitting everyone now a days, we need to stick together and enjoy life. family first. I learn that sometimes we have to put our differences aside to become better person and enjoy life. with this pandemic I learn that we only live once and dont know when is our time to go so why waste it on meaningless grudges instead of enjoying each other. I know you understand me on this and you relate to this as well. how many of us hold grudges and after a few years we dont know why we was mad about! yeah you know is true! is not worth it if you cant fix it let it go. thats my johnra. life is precious to waste on stupidities. I cant wait to see my sister she means a lot to me. trust me, I wish my mom would’ve had more kids but is okay my dad had plenty like 23 of us yeah is a big family. I wish I knew them all but lets see what happens. god bless you all.

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A day in my life when fibermyalgia and lupus and artritis kicks in and all your plans goes to the rabbit hole!

Meaning because of the rain and all these health problems when it rains everythig is ruined yesterday i had plans to wash clothes and to cook food for the hubby and so it didnt get done on top of that i got my injections for my psoriasis and so there goes my day the only thing i was able to do was take my girls braids off and even doing that my hands were swollen but it had to be done i had plans to continue shredding old documents to eliminate bulk and unesesarry papers and also because i want to minimize things around the house i did get a giant box from ikea and i manange t eliminate the box and put the items purchase on the counter to clean later and put away but i couldnt i was not feeling right lots of pain in my joints and and my hands feet were so swollen it even hurt to put sneakers on yeah that bad but i thank god i am alive and that my family is good and we live another day to tell the new stories how was your day yesterday!

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good morning good morning! if you want to know what I am doing keep reading!

I am having such a relax day after drinking my meds last night today I feel week and super tired and so I am just resting and watching my show today while I mess with my planners and watch my favorite show pretty little liars and I got a package from Ikea a massive package and I am so exited to throw away all the old plates and cups and mugs and bowls away for the new ones this is so cute but my meds are strong I still feel super tired or mellow I hate this feeling but I am trying to stay active here and well I love chatting with you guys also I received my pink tights yesterday super cute they are so sex c I will try to wash clothes and cook in a bit I want to knit but I dont think I can today feeling to tired today how is your day going so far I even paid bills and I found my life insurance money order when you think you put something in one place but it appears somewhere else its funny but I had a cup of milk and cookies and wallaby’s I’m calm

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16 year old shoots his friend for a pair of Jordans sneakers Air Force 1!

I cant believe he killed his friend for sneakers what is going on with these kids now a day over some sneakers a life was taken and they were friends it brakes my heart see such stories come up in the news this beyond crazy I figure by now all this killing would stop I put his friend in my prayers and to the mother of this criminal child I cant even imagine how heart broken she is and the disappointment and the news on her on the matter as a mother myself I couldn’t imagine how she feel but at this point I would be embarrassed to be outside and to be single as the mother of the child that killed a child for a pair of sneakers I feel really bad for her prayers to her as well people should stick together and support each other and just hard to manage this situation what do you guys think about this new?

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HBOMAX has been my savior through out this pandemic!

I have been watching movies and tv shows like crazy I have to say it has been entertaining for me I watch my shows while the hubby goes to work and when he is home and we are eating dinner we watch movies also it is great that some theater movies pops up in hbomax because we make popcorn and have a drink and just relax we also watch movies with the kids as well it has been such fun to do this last night we was watching Aquaman it is such an amazing movie the action the colors the graphic I love it plus the story is great and we had popcorn and drinks and we all enjoy the movie and we even chat about the movie after what we liked and what we didn’t like witch wasn’t the case here this movie is a dream and did I mention how sexy is aqua man like just saying he is a treat also his mom is so cute and the princess that fell in love with him is so pretty love her red hair so much and it was amazing I wonder what movie we will watch tonight any suggestion on movies or shows to watch here I know I told you guys that I am binge watching Pretty Little Liars I love this show

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have you ever wonder where your money goes? do you feel like your not spending right or just lost some times!

this weekend I had $800.00 and I went to the friends house for the weekend and hubby and I agree to save $500.00 and to spend $300.00 that was our budget but it turned out hubby got carried away and purchased three bottles of alcohol and then some when we went home I ask him about the $500.00 and he stated that we dont have that amount so is annoying that we spend more then we planned like I had stated only$300.00 I even suggested for him to give my son the $500.00 but no I got it and look I hate that I had plans and he just whatever any who I just know the next time I will hold my money and do what I do because he is with my cuzins hubby he forget certain things have to be done right we did enjoy our self but I wanted to be more wise for the month I am not doing this ever again I have to start doing things right for me because I have kids and they need their mom to be on point I can’t say he is an ass but we should’ve manage right I had plans with that money like he knew this omg what I am trying to say is I will manage my money myself next time because I will be on point and I stick to my plans life is hard we cant be spending money like we got it when we dont have it we need to make better decisions like manage money better and safe money we have to make better choices life is not getting better but we can make it better maybe spending less and not spending on certain things we dont need anymore yeah so this is what happened to me has this ever happened to you? and what do you do different now?

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Have you ever wonder how would it be to just up and leave and start fresh!

This was a good weekend and the cookout wwas great is nice to step out of your comfort zone and do something different in life pretty soon i want to live somewhere else like texas or florida just to do different things and because i would like to live in a warm area and not use to many clothes and coats and then some have you ever wanted to do something other then the usual to just start fresh and live a little well guess what we are planning on moving to jersey to start fresh and have a better life style i also cant wait to go to the beach all the time and just enjoy my kids more my on will be out soon so that sucks but is a great thing for him i am so proud of him you know what is summer all the time like yessssss i wouldnt live in puertorico but i willmove to florida hell yeah

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What a weekend i had in Pennsylvania! I will tell you all about it! Let me know how was your weekend?

I actually had so much fun at my cuzin house and her busband and kids we had so much laugh we went shopping and we ate out we cooked together and we party had a couple of drinks here and there my son was with us and he enjoy himself a lot to he ate a lot and he relax he also went for a walk and enjoy himself life is better for us we all do for each other and we stick to eachother i have to say i needed this vacation i needed to be out and about i have been cooped up in my house all this time and it was getting to me depressingand thinking stupidity and i just felt like i was gonna go crazy being with friends and family is the best we need to be together and let go of the past and i had such a great time i would do it again but i need to not eat bad and eat right because eating not healthy has my stomach fucked up and drinking no bueno for me because i have been eating healthy all this time that eating the way i did has me fucked up but i will get back i to my shit and start my diet and do right again so yeah but i enjoy myself we might go to the lake today lets see ill let you know if we do Goodmorning

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10 things you dont know about me?

1] I write poems

2] I can sing

3] I would like to write a book of my life

4] I am a bit insecure

5] I love to shop

6] I love to cook

7] I dont like no-one to use my soap, toothpaste or my towel

8] I enjoy my alone time

9] I luv my hubby but I hold back because I am afraid of getting hurt

10] I have four youtube accounts ladycraftsalot83 and beautyguru83 and sparklebeautyplans oh yeah and nellysprostylenails

let me know if there are any other question you want me to answer till the next one

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If I won the lottery hhhhhmmmmm!

truth be told I would definitely help a foundation with kids and I would ensure to have a nice bank account for my kids for college and get them their own condo make sure to get myself a condo looking towards Manhathan because I’ve always wanted that view in the morning with a nice balcony to drink my coffee and tea and make a women group to help women with depression and to create fun trips to unwind with them a lot of women and men go through a lot of depression now a day and I would like to give back to the community I would also help the animals by providing lots of food and medications for them I would also help countries with food problems and clothing and shelter I would be honor to help others because while ill make sure my kids are wealthy ill make sure to help those in needs I would help immigrants and parents that need support and I would be present I would love to win the lotto because I would be so generous and I would also help the kids that need help with college it might seem to you as though I am bullshitting you I can measure I am not these are things I would do for real if I was to come along with some good cash I would also pay of all my depts of credit cards and student loans and live a much stress free life I’m sure we all have thought about this if I win the lottery a million things comes to mind I know that much but for the mean time I can only dream we all do what would you do if you win the lottery?

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How to deal with a spouse that snores!

I’ve try everything really! he sleeps to the side he diets he drinks a lot of water and the truth is I drink sleeping medication because I cant sleep through the snoring I try every time he turns to my side and tell him turn to the other side and is annoying when you constantly have to repeat yourself even it isn’t his fault he snores when he is sleeping is annoying because I am a light sleeper and if I dont get enough sleep I become irritated and very moody the next day so I tend to just leave the room and go to the living room because I just dont want to deal with it and also I can be very rude because I cant sleep but then he gets mad because I go to the living room the truth is I cant stand snoring it honestly irritates my ears because I notice I have sensitive ears and I dont want to hurt his feelings is not his fault he snores but it is annoying and once I am up I cant go back to sleep if I go to sleep at like 10 something usually I notice that while I am on my sleeping medication I sleep mostly till like 3 am because I guess thats when his snoring get more loud and then it is all gone wrong from there because I cant sleep this is so diffricult if you guys have any tips on how to deal with a snoring partner please let me know? I also am thinking about using ear plugs if anything to see if that works ill let you guys know this week if the ear plugs helps until next time

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